Resources for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

 

Books / Articles  (in chronological order –titles link to Amazon listings):
Ferenczi, Sandor  (1932)    “Confusion of Tongues Between Adults and the Child” 
Lew, Mike  (1988; 2nd edition, 2004)    Victims No Longer
Hunter, Mic  (1990)  Abused Boys:  The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse
Adams, Kenneth  (1991)    Silently Seduced:  ….Understanding Covert Incest
Mendel, Matthew  (1995)    The Male Survivor:  The Impact of Sexual Abuse
Gartner, Richard.  (1999)    Betrayed as Boys:  Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused  Men
            -----------  (2005)  Beyond Betrayal:  Taking Charge of your Life After Boyhood Sexual Abuse
            -----------  (2017a)  Trauma and Countertrauma, Resilience and Counterresilience
            -----------  (2017b)  Boys and Men Betrayed: Understanding the Trauma of Sexual Abuse and Assault
Dorais, Michel.  (2002; 2nd edition 2009):  Don’t Tell:  The Sexual Abuse of Boys
Fradkin, Howard  (2012)  Joining Forces:  Empowering Male Survivors to Thrive
Corbett, Alan (2016)  Psychotherapy with Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse: The Invisible Men
Burmester, William, (2017)  “Interpersonal & Institutional Dissociation in the Sexual Abuse of Boys:” (in Gartner 2017b)

Autobiography:
De Milly, Walter  (1999)   In My Father’s Arms
West, Cameron (1999)  First Person Plural
Rosenthal, Chuck  (2004)    Never Let Me Go
Hoffman, Richard  (2005)    Half the House
Moran, Martin  (2006)    The Tricky Part
Oxnam, Robert  (2006)    A Fractured Mind  / 
Fisher, Aaron  (2012)    Silent No More

Fiction:
Yanagihara, Hanya (2014)   A Little Life
--------  (2013)  The People in the Trees

Organizations:
MaleSurvivor        www.malesurvivor.org    
1 in 6                      www.1in6.org
SNAP                     www.snapnetwork.org
Stop It Now!          www.stopitnow.org
The Bristlecone Project     https://bristleconeproject.org
TBO ( for women)    www.takinggbackourselves.com

Feature Films  
The Boys of St. Vincent (1993)
Sleepers (1996)
The Celebration / Festen (1998)
L.I.E.  (2001)
The Unsaid  (2001)
Antwone Fisher  (2002)
Mystic River  (2003)
Bad Education  (2004)
The Woodsman  (2004)
Mysterious Skin  (2005)
Notes on a Scandal  (2007)                                                                                                                    
The Kite Runner  (2007)
The Perks of Bering a Wallflower (2012)
Spotlight  (2015)
From Afar (Desde allá)  (2015)

Documentary Films / Videos
Deliver Us From Evil  (2006)
Stories of Silence  (2007)
Fairytale of Kathmandu  (2007)
Boyhood Shadows  (2008)
Boys and Men Healing  (2010)
In a Town This Size  (2011)
An Open Secret  (2015)

Media
Oprah Show: 200 Men: Where Are They Now? 
Sandusky: Costas Interview  
  Aaron Fisher  20/20 story:  -1-  -2- s
Oprah Show: 200 Men
Boston Globe: Private Schools Painful Secrets  (2016)
Robert Oxnam,   on 60 MInutes  

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