ONLINE Resources

 
Books / Articles (in chronological order –titles link to Amazon listings):
Ferenczi, Sandor (1932) “Confusion of Tongues Between Adults and the Child” Lew, Mike (1988; 2nd edition, 2004) Victims No Longer Hunter, Mic (1990) Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse Adams, Kenneth (1991) Silently Seduced: ….Understanding Covert Incest Mendel, Matthew (1995) The Male Survivor: The Impact of Sexual Abuse Gartner, Richard. (1999) Betrayed as Boys: Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused Men ----------- (2005) Beyond Betrayal: Taking Charge of your Life After Boyhood Sexual Abuse
 ----------- (2017a) Trauma and Countertrauma, Resilience and Counterresilience ----------- (2017b) Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men: The Trauma of Sexual Abuse ______ (2017c) Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys Dorais, Michel. (2002; 2nd edition 2009): Don’t Tell: The Sexual Abuse of Boys Fradkin, Howard (2012) Joining Forces: Empowering Male Survivors to Thrive Corbett, Alan (2016) Psychotherapy with Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse: The Invisible Men Burmester, William, (2017) “Interpersonal & Institutional Dissociation in the Sexual Abuse of Boys:” (in Gartner 2017b) Autobiography: De Milly, Walter (1999) In My Father’s Arms West, Cameron (1999) First Person Plural Rosenthal, Chuck (2004) Never Let Me Go Hoffman, Richard (2005) Half the House Moran, Martin (2006) The Tricky Part Oxnam, Robert (2006) A Fractured Mind 
Fisher, Aaron (2012) Silent No More Fiction: Yanagihara, Hanya (2014) A Little Life -------- (2013) The People in the Trees Organizations: MaleSurvivor www.malesurvivor.org 1 in 6 www.1in6.org SNAP www.snapnetwork.org Stop It Now! www.stopitnow.org The Bristlecone Project https://bristleconeproject.org TBO ( for women) www.takinggbackourselves.com 
Feature Films   The Boys of St. Vincent (1993) Sleepers (1996) The Celebration / Festen (1998) L.I.E.  (2001) The Unsaid  (2001) Antwone Fisher  (2002) Mystic River  (2003) Bad Education  (2004) The Woodsman  (2004) Mysterious Skin  (2005) Notes on a Scandal  (2007) The Kite Runner  (2007) The Perks of Bering a Wallflower (2012) Spotlight  (2015) From Afar (Desde allá)  (2015) Documentary Films / Videos
Deliver Us From Evil (2006)
Stories of Silence (2007) Fairytale of Kathmandu (2007) Boyhood Shadows (2008) Boys and Men Healing (2010) In a Town This Size (2011) An Open Secret (2015) Media Oprah Show: 200 Men: Where Are They Now? Sandusky: Costas Interview Aaron Fisher 20/20 story: -1- -2- s Oprah Show: 200 Men Boston Globe: Private Schools Painful Secrets (2016) Robert Oxnam, on 60 MInutes 

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